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Tracking and Blasting Assumptions

Tracking and Blasting Assumptions, HeatherAsh Amara, Living The Four Agreements

Tracking and Blasting Assumptions

Making assumptions is a habit that can be as hard to break as giving up smoking. Our mind gets addicted to filling in the blanks in any scenario, and before we know it we are reaching for another assumption and harming our mental health. While assumptions might give us an immediate sense of relief: “I know what is going on!” They have long-term effects in our relationships, which get clouded by the smoke of second-hand assumptions. Our assumptions not only create false beliefs and misguided actions, but also ruin relationships, cause companies to fail, and can even lead to death. (But the people who make assumptions that lead to their demise don’t live to tell their tale…)

There are two tricks I like to use to help quit the assumption habit: assumption tracking and assumption blasts.

Whenever there is a miscommunication, mistake, or misunderstanding instead of blaming or judging stop and ask: “What assumption led to this experience?” There is always an assumption behind chaos and conflict. Explore what assumption you made by looking back at the sequence of events that led to the current experience. You’ll soon see where you left reality and went into story. (Resist naming other people’s assumptions unless they are exploring with you!) Tracking assumptions helps us to be more mindful of the consequences of assuming and can help us to stop the assumption habit in the present.

An assumption blast engages your mind to be more creative rather than automatically believing an assumption is the truth. If you notice yourself making an assumption about anything, start brainstorming at least three other “assumptions” you could make about the situation. You can do this with anything. If you notice a homeless person walking in front of your car, stop and say to yourself, “wait, that is an assumption that they are homeless.” Then come up with three other “assumptions.”

1. They are actually a professor at the local university who is studying homelessness.

2. They are not homeless, they just prefer to live in nature.

3. They are an alien come down to earth who is inhabiting the first person they saw.

By doing assumption blasts regularly you’ll stop believing the first thing your mind latches onto and realize there are many possibilities for every experience and perception. And without the expensive habit of assuming, you’ll have extra change to spare on the things that really matter, like clear communication, truth seeking, and asking good questions.

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HeatherAsh’s apprenticeship with don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreementsbegan in 1994, and she now teaches with the Ruiz family. She is the author of The Toltec Path of Transformation and founder of Toci, The Toltec Center of Creative Intent. www.toci.org

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