No Worries

Virgin No Worries, HeatherAsh Amara, Living The Four Agreements

No Worries

Twice a year I make a pilgrimage to the Basilica in Mexico City to visit what is probably the most visited and revered spiritual site of the Americas.

I love the energy, faith, and beauty that vibrates from the people and the place. But this trip I had an experience that both completely shocked me and made me laugh (on the inside, of course, since at the time I was in the main chapel surrounded by people praying.)

A little about the Basilica, which I affectionately call Spiritual Disneyland.

The story goes that in 1531 a representation of the divine mother appeared before Juan Diego, a peasant who was walking on a hill which was once in the middle of nowhere. This same remote site where the Virgin of Guadalupe appeared and asked Juan Diego for a favor is now surrounded by Mexico City, the largest city in the world.

The favor she asked: “Tell the bishop to build me a shrine.” Here is the story translated into English from the original Nauhuatl:

Diego told his story to the Spanish Archbishop of Mexico City, Fray Juan de Zumárraga, who instructed him to return to Tepeyac Hill, and ask the “lady” for a miraculous sign to prove her identity. The first sign was the Virgin healing Juan’s uncle. The Virgin told Juan Diego to gather flowers from the top of Tepeyac Hill. Although December was very late in the growing season for flowers to bloom, Juan Diego found Castilian roses, not native to Mexico, on the normally barren hilltop. The Virgin arranged these in his peasant cloak or tilma. When Juan Diego opened his cloak before Bishop Zumárraga on December 12, the flowers fell to the floor, and on the fabric was the image of the Virgin of Guadalupe.*


So here I am, at what in Egypt they would call the holy of holies — the most precious, powerful place of the Basilica, where the image of the Virgin of Guadalupe from the original tilma of Juan Diego is framed in gold high up on a wall.

There are four moving sidewalks in front of the tilma, always filled with people crying, taking photos, praying, holding babies up to be blessed. One escalator goes one direction, the other three the other. So you can ride one moving sidewalk one direction and then turn around and ride one back to lengthen your stay in front of the Virgin of Guadalupe’s sacred image. People also crowd at either end of the moving sidewalks, drinking in the energy of the image, crying, taking photos, praying, and holding up babies to be blessed.

It is humanity at our best: reverent, deeply moved, holding up iPhones to capture the moment forever.

I was on my second moving sidewalk ride, taking in the energy and beauty of the tilma, when a booming voice emanated from the ceiling and started speaking in English.

After 15 years or so years of visiting the Basilica this was a novel experience. I had 1. never heard English spoken at a mass at the Basilica before 2. never heard the mass broadcast over loudspeakers in the holy of holies 3. never imagined that a priest during mass at the Basilica would make a joke 4. and never imagined that he would tell us we were all going to hell.

Maybe the message was only for me, because no one else seemed to hear the voice being piped in from the main pulpit from the priest, who then started to share the story again in Spanish.

Here is what he said, the reverberating words floating and bouncing over my head as I rode the moving sidewalk back and forth:

There are only two things to worry about in life.
Either you are healthy, or you are sick.
If you are healthy, there is nothing to worry about.
If you are sick, there are only two things to worry about.
Either you are going to get better, or you are going to die.
If you are going to get better, then there is nothing to worry about.
If you are going to die, there are only two things to worry about.
Either you are going to heaven or you are going to hell.
If you are going to heaven, there is nothing to worry about.
If you are going to hell, you will be so busy shaking the hands of all your friends that there will be no time to worry.
So there is nothing to worry about.

As the Virgin of Guadalupe gazed down at me, I felt she was reminding me that no matter what, it is going to be okay. I smiled to myself and heard this mantra in my head: do your best, don’t make assumptions, don’t take anything personally, and don’t worry!

And that is an impeccable way to live.


Heather Ash’s apprenticeship with don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreementsbegan in 1994, and she now teaches with the Ruiz family. She is the author of The Toltec Path of Transformation and founder of Toci, The Toltec Center of Creative Intent.

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